Chapter 6 is all about continuing to motivate that darn
elephant.
I’ve been wedding planning for about six months now, and let me tell
you…motivating the Elephant gets harder as time goes on. I’m seriously
considering running away with my fiancé to Las Vegas and getting married by an
Elvis impersonator. Seriously speaking though, wedding planning is tough!
My Elephant was extremely motivated when the ring first
landed on my finger. I searched Pinterest for wedding ideas and was delighted
to call and set up appointments with prospective vendors. However, as I reach “the
year of my wedding,” I find my desire to complete tasks dwindling. The wedding just seemed SO big as I looked at my checklist of things to do before August 6th.
After reading this chapter, I thought of the snowballing debt concept, and
tried to implement it into my planning. Instead of looking at one huge
checklist, I organized it into categories like “Catering,” “Flowers,” and “Centerpieces.”
I realized I only had a few things left to do before I knocked some of those big chunks of
planning out of the way. (I mean seriously, if I never have to look at another
centerpiece idea again…I think I’ll survive!) Doing this helped me get rid of a
few bigger pieces to the planning, and it helped me realize I was “20 percent
of the way to the destination, not 0 percent” (p. 128). What a feeling that is!
Recognizing you aren’t completely drowning in your plans truly does help
motivate. I think coming to the realization that, “To motivate change, you’ve
got to plan for [those smaller milestones],” helped me get my butt in gear to
finish this wedding planning (p. 136). Telling myself, “Just one more phone
call and I can be done with transportation,” or “I just need to buy this ribbon
and I’ll be done with the ceremony location decorations,” feels awesome!
To use a more school-related concept, this chapter had me
thinking about how we spend time teaching kids things they’ll never officially
use in their future. We all teach something in our subject areas where we laugh
and think, “Great…how am I going to get my kids to buy in to this?!” When the
authors said, “The Elephant hates doing things with no immediate payoff,” this
is what I thought of (p. 130-31). Kids look to learn things they can use right
this second. They don’t consider what they’ll need “for the future.” The future
is a made up place where kids need to learn how to use their words and write in
complete sentences. They hate that. In AIS, I spend large amounts of time
expanding vocabulary knowledge. I don’t give kids definitions and say, “We’re
having a quiz next Friday.” I show them one word at a time, in conjunction with
videos, comic strips, and classroom activities. At the beginning of the year,
every kid flips through their vocabulary dictionary and says, “No way am I
learning all these words. This is impossible.” I “shrink the change.” I only
give 12-15 words per marking period, and we review each separately. I don’t go
in alphabetical order. I give short, meaningful quizzes, instead of massive
unit tests. I break down the knowledge first, so my kids don’t have to do it
themselves. Just yesterday, I had a kid tell me, “Ms. Herbert, this quiz was
way too easy today.” I said to him, “Are you sure it was easy? Or was it that
you learned all the words, so it seemed easy?” It’s amazing how a simple change
on my part completely transforms the way my students perceive their learning. (And for the record, you never hear an AIS kid saying vocabulary is “easy.”) J
Shrinking the change is one of those concepts that makes you wish you thought of it first because it's so simple. I love the idea, and find it easy to use with kids. I just need to get better at doing it for my own life.